Know yourself. Hello me nice to meet me. I am a morning person – so I front load my day, because I know I am going to be tired early and won’t feel like doing anything of importance passed like 8pm (or 5:30 - don't judge).
I also do not care about getting my nails done. I can’t do anything with those nails, and the whole time they are getting done I am thinking about the money I could be spending on a cute shirt from J.Crew. I do not feel relaxed, so I don’t do it. I would rather spend that money and time elsewhere.
I understand though that some women crave the pampering type feeling that comes with a pedicure or having their nails look nice. So that’s a non-negotiable to them.
The point is – figure out your non-negotiables. Maybe you are a booze hound on the weekends, so save up your money, energy, and calories for table dancing on the weekends with the girls.
I have friend who loves the “Housewives of wherever” series. It is her guilty pleasure. Once she had her baby girl she had a hard time fitting that in in the evenings. She figured out to her drink her coffee while watching instead of her wine. She watches it at like 5 am when her baby is up anyway.
Know what you need, work it in, make it work, be happy.
A parting word on another way I know myself - I choose comfy.
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